ircII help: set notify_handler
Usage: SET NOTIFY_HANDLERS <noisy|old|quiet> 'noisy', 'quiet', and 'old'. old makes /notify work like it did for 2.2,'noisy' and 'quiet' make it work on a lot more events. join/quit/message/etc trigger the notify, the difference being that 'quiet' won't show these extra differences, where as 'noisy' will. they both add/remove the name to the internal 'notified' list.